Research shows that between half and one-third of all people experience personal transformation after traumatic events such as bereavement, serious illness or divorce. Actually, the difference between those who break under pressure and those who grow stronger isn't random. A 2009 study published in Nature Reviews Neuroscience identified five factors that determine resilience: your genes, your childhood, how you think about problems, social support and living with purpose. Und

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